I've been doing some volunteer work in December that is not "work" at all. I wrap presents for one night for D.C. Candlelighters Childhood Cancer Foundation, an amazing Washington, D.C. metropolitan area support group for families who currently have or recently had children with cancer, or have been touched by cancer in some way.I say this is not work because I love, love, love to wrap presents. I beg my friends to let me wrap their gifts. I have a ribbon habit that is hard to keep under control, I buy wrapping paper when I have too much already, and I am a firm believer that a beautifully wrapped package makes a birthday or anniversary exponentially better. If there were a 12-step program for obsessive wrapping, I would be standing up in front of the group telling how I backslid - again - because I couldn't pass up a Costco deal on an industrial-sized spool of holiday trimming.
So when a pal asked me a few years ago if I wanted to wrap for the Candlelighters, I said "yes" before she finished her question. And it's my favorite thing to do before the holidays, because in the rush of getting my home ready, making holiday plans with friends I don't see often, and shipping my own gifts off to family in California and Arizona, it makes me stop and appreciate the lives of people who are facing fears and medical issues most of us can only imagine.
D.C. Candlelighters creates many warm and wonderful moments for the families they help - throughout the year, they do such good deeds as creating new patient care bags, providing age-appropriate books about cancer, and sponsoring family "meet and greets." For the Gift Wrapping Party, the organization makes it a very special night - parents bring their gifts to be wrapped and then they gather for dinner, fresh-baked cookies and a relaxing massage or reiki treatment, while I and a few other elves cut and tape and attach bows and gift cards to their presents. It's one night out that relieves a little stress and removes a task from a long to-do list for parents who are burdened with worry about their kids, both the sick and healthy ones. It's one night that I, too, am just as grateful for D.C. Candlelighters, because they honor me by sharing the exceptional stories of these brave moms and dads, and allowing me to make their holiday season just a little bit easier. And that's a gift that doesn't need a bow to be beautiful.
